Have Sex – Will Orgasm

In Victorian times, most adult ladies never experienced and orgasm. In fact, many did not even know what an orgasm was.  Many women were brought up with no sexual instruction, and sometimes with negative messages about their bodies, and their sexuality. In fact a twin study climaxing in 2005 found that one in three women reported never or seldom achieving orgasm during intercourse, and just one tenth always achieved an orgasm. Orgasms don’t come easily for many women. A woman who cannot have an orgasm is as frustrated as a man with an erectile disfunction.

Now the question is how do we change all this, especially when most women now a days  want orgasms. Lets start by defining a female orgasm.  Woman experiencing an orgasm is much like what men achieve-there is a peak of sexual excitement, marking a moment of intense pleasure, and a pulsing, electric sensation that spreads out through the body.  The rhythmic pulsations take place within the pelvic area also encompassing the vaginal walls. One key difference is that women do not have to have a recovery period, and may have many orgasms with continued stimulation, usually within 60 to 120 seconds. In most women, there is no fluid ejaculated during orgasm.  This is an important fact for men to know, so as to not feel like they have not pleasured their woman, or make them feel inadequate because they don't.

With the right stimulation, most women can achieve multiple orgasms if they so desire.

Women are physiologically pickier than men when it comes to achieving an orgasm. For instance:

1) They need to feel wanted, and appreciated a sensual surrounding
3) A partner whom they really like
4) Relaxed environment
5) The right degree if clitoral stimulation – not to rough, not too easy

You will not have great success in giving your partner orgasms if you fail to provide most of the above.

Men should understand that women will have different varieties of orgasms---the most common is orgasm of the clitoris.  The clitoris may be stimulated in a few ways, but the most common are oral stimulation or hand manipulation. The clitoral orgasm may be wet or dry, and leads to pulsations within the uterus . Another type of orgasm is called the G Spot. The G spot is tougher to zero in on: it is located on the upper side of the vagina – about one half way in. The majority of women will have the G spot a few inches inside the vagina, and on the upper side.  Gentle but firm pressure is required to find the G spot if the woman is not stimulated yet.  It is a softer area that is about one half centimeter in size. The location and size varies somewhat from woman to woman.  A vaginal orgasm will usually occur if the G-spot is appropriately stimulated.

Figure 1, Internal Female Anatomy:




In summary, an orgasm is something amazing that will provide both partners with a wonderful rush of pleasurable feelings. The next list is a summary that can help you to help your female partner have orgasms regularly:

1) Women are touchy, feely people – use gentle stroking with your hands, lips and tongue.Be gentle, especially when touching her genitals, or rubbing her clitoris
3) Gently kiss her breasts to create excitement
4) Take it slow- it is not a race
5) Talk to your partner, find out what she likes
6) Be a tease- touching her pleasurable spots then withdrawing over, and over again. This will build arousal, and heighten orgasm.
7) Use your own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris – however she may need additional lubrication, you can buy lubricants at any drugstore.
8) Be careful not to over stimulate some parts of the body – too much manipulation of the nipples or clitoris can cause pain
9) Experiment: try different things
10) Discuss anything new you may want to try and listen to her, you do not want to push her into something that will spoil the mood

Men should use this guide, because if their partner can enjoy orgasms every time they have sex, then you will definitely have more sex.

If you are an sexually unhappy woman – nag your partner to read this article, after all, your entire future is at stake!

Good Luck!

If this article has peaked your interest then just visit the link below:

http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/advice_for_men.php

 

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Dating on the Internet

There are literally thousands of dating sites on the internet. Many are just scams. In reality, there are only a double handful of legitimate large scale dating sites. Most of them are just not worth the effort to join. Many dating sites are not free, and some that pretend to be free are only free for some minimal functionality.

In general, you can see other people, but you will have to pay to contact them. But even if you have to pay, isn't it worth it to meet the love of your life. If you are interested in online dating, follow the link below and it will take you to a site that lists the best sites on the internet.


Dating Sites

Will I Ever Get Lucky

Hi my name is Skippy, and no I'm not a kangaroo! I was just a love starved guy looking for a little lovin. I was always hoping someone would take a chance on me. Hmm – sounds like a broken record. Lol. Lol.  Just kidding. So there I was, 27 and still haven’t had any. Thats right I said virgin, and I felt like I was the only one left in the world. It seems virgins are a dying breed these days. I told people I was saving myself for that special one. Its funny how losers always say they're saving themselves. For what? The end of the world? I once told a coworker that I was a virgin by choice. He laughed and said ”Thats like a homely person saying I'm pretty on the inside”. I kept saying that if something doesn’t change soon I might consider a sex change. Maybe then I could give it away. God I was horny (did I say that out loud)? Sometimes I felt so alienated from society. Everyone seems to be in a big hurry to go nowhere. No one ever noticed me. So almost every night, it was just me, my friend Lurch (god what horrible name) and my faithful dog Bobo.

Late one night my friend and I walked home from the neighborhood hotel. As we walked we were met by a couple of bullies shouting profanities at us. My friend said you guys better back off because were the members of a club, (ya the losers club). One of them responded, “Probably the hair club for men. Get em”. As we ran for our lives dodging beer caps and hard boiled eggs we decided to take a stand, but luck for once was on our side. It seems they had gone in the other direction. Lurch said it was lucky for them they went the other way or I don't know what I would have done (probably shit your self). Lurch tried to start a club for virgin males but no one wanted to join, guess his campaign slogan “Proud To Be A Virgin”, sent them running. 

As we sat on my front porch one night watching the women walk by, seems thats all we ever did was watch, wondering how to make our lives more exciting, it came to me. I explained to my friend that I know someone who is involved in one of those online sites and he met some very nice women maybe we should give it a try.

Well we couldn't be happier,things couldn't be better for the both of us. We have met some wonderful caring women and, well I never kiss and tell, but I met the one, and I owe it all to a buddy who gave me this great link to check out. So if your tired of being alone and want to share your life’s experiences with someone then the link below can help you.

Online Dating Sites

If You Want More Sex, Treat Your Woman to an Orgasm

In Victorian times, most adult women did not have orgasms. In fact, most had no idea what an orgasm was.  Generations of women were brought up with a lack of sex education, and usually believed that sex had to be painful, thus ensuring that the were not receptive to any form of pleasure. In fact a twin study ending in 2005 found that one third of women did not (or seldom) orgasm, and just one tenth always achieved an orgasm. As you can see, orgasms are rare or non-existent for many women. A woman who cannot have an orgasm has as frustrating a life as a man with an erectile disfunction.

So how can we change this, especially when most women now a days  desire orgasms. Well let's begin by exploring what a female orgasm really is. Woman experiencing an orgasm is much like what men experience-there is a peak of sexual excitement, marking a moment of intense pleasure, and a throbbing, electric sensation that extends throughout the body.  Rythmiccontractions take place within the pelvic area including the walls of the vagina. One key difference is that women do not have to have a recovery period, and will usually be able to have multiple orgasms with ongoing coital stimulation, usually within 60 to 120 seconds. In most women, there is no fluid ejaculated during orgasm. This is important for men to understand so that they understand that a woman can have a completely satisfying orgasm without ejaculating.

With the help of a skilled lover, most women can have multiple orgasms if they want.

Unlike men, women need the right conditions before they are able to orgasm. For instance:

1) They  must feel appreciated, and wantedA sensual surrounding
3) A person they click with
4) Relaxed environment
5) The right degree if clitoral stimulation – not to rough, not too easy

You will unlikely simulate your female partner to orgasm without most of the previous conditions being met.

Men need to know that women will have different varieties of orgasms---the most common is orgasm of the clitoris.  The clitoris can be stimulated by fingers or through oral sex. The clitoral orgasm can have fluid expelled or be dry, and results in contractions within the uterus . Another type of orgasm is called the G Spot. The G spot is tougher to zero in on: it is located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone, and the front of the cervix. In most women the G-spot is about 3 inches into the vagina, and near the neck of the bladder where it connects with the urethra.  Gentle but firm pressure is required to find the G spot if the woman is not stimulated yet.  It is a slightly more pliable area about 1/3 of an inch in size. The exact size and location can vary slightly from female to female.  A vaginal orgasm will usually occur if the G-spot is appropriately stimulated.

Figure 1, Internal Female Anatomy:




In summary, sex is something very sensual that can provide both partners with a wonderful rush of pleasurable feelings. The following checklist can help your lady companion have orgasms regularly:

1) Women like affection---use your hands, and or mouth to caress her body. Be gentle, especially when touching her genitals, or rubbing her clitoris
3) Orally stimulate her breasts with kissing and gentle sucking
4) Slow and easy is the only way to win this race
5) Talk to your partner, find out what she likes
6) Women like you to tease them sexually – touch and withdraw many times. This will build arousal, and heighten orgasm.
7) Use your own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris – however she may need additional lubrication, you can buy lubricants at any drugstore.
8) Learn her body- does her nipples get hard only during arousal or are they like that at other times
9) Try new things as variety can add to the pleasure
10) Don't make demands: this could spoil the moment

All men, can use this as a guide to helping your women have a more pleasurable experience, and helping her achieve many orgasms.

If you are an sexually unhappy woman – convince your partner to read this article, after all, your future happiness is at stake!

Good Luck!

If this article has peaked your interest then visit the link below:
http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/advice_for_men.php

MILF's And Cougars Are Almost The Same In The Eyes Of Their Admirers

Young men are increasingly gravitating to older women when dating. Popular shows like Sex In the City, Weeds and Desperate Housewife's are opening up the eyes of the younger generation males to the delights of dating an older woman. Cougars are happy with this new outcome, because it gives them a much larger pool of young virile dudes to select from. You just gotta love that!

Before you dive into the cougar pool, you may want to take a closer look though. They do, after all, call them cougars for a reason!

First the pluses. Dating an older woman brings with it her inherent experience. Primarily, it’s her sexual experience that intrigues most men. After all, by the time a woman is in her 40’s, she will presumably have had a number of lovers, and will have learned some interesting things in her experiences. When I dated a MILF, I was constantly surprised at her abilities in the bedroom. She knew what she was doing, and was happy to teach me a thing or two!

Secondly, most cougars have an income of their own and usually know how to live inside of it. Most young women are saddled with debt, and as such, them men have to treat them to everything. MILF's may be a bit strained financially, but most of them have learned to budget and look after their money. They might not shower you with it, but they are also unlikely to be a burden.

For most men, the best thing about dating a more mature woman is the fact that they are just more straightforward. They are past the princess stage, and are into real life. They know what they want and will usually just tell you. No guesswork, no crap, just mutual satisfaction.

Of course every silver lining has a gray cloud lurking inside. The issue with many MILF's is that they usually do not have the cutesy little anorexic body that many young men seem to seek out. That can be a good thing or a bad thing. If you are a breast man, most MILF's do indeed have larger boobs, but along with that usually comes some other padding. In most cases it is not all that much, and in fact can be a welcome change to having bones digging into you during sex. The good news is that most women are now turning to various forms of exercise to try to keep their bodies toned. If you find one of these, you have the best of all worlds.

Second, a MILF can be more bossy and/or controlling than a young woman. She may slide into a “motherly” role with a young man, and expect to have a lot of the control in their relationship. This can be dealt with by having open and honest communication, though, and is easily remedied.

The social stigma of a past generations is gone. An older woman with a younger man is totally acceptable now. All the barriers are gone.

So like the Nike commercial – just do it! Visit the link below:

http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/MILFdating.php

If You Want More Sex, Treat Your Woman to an Orgasm

In Victorian times, most adult ladies did not have orgasms. In fact, many did not even know what an orgasm was.  A lot of women were reared with no sexual instruction, and often thinking that sex was dirty. A twin study done in 2005 found that one in three women reported never or seldom achieving orgasm during intercourse, and just one tenth always achieved an orgasm. As you can see, orgasms are rare or non-existent for many women. A woman who cannot have an orgasm has as frustrating a life as a man with an erectile dysfunction.

So how can we change this, especially when most women now a days  desire orgasms. Well let's begin by exploring what a female orgasm really is.  Woman experiencing an orgasm is similar to what men experience-there is a surge of emotion, marking a moment of intense pleasure, and a pulsing, twitchy sensation that extends throughout the body.  Rythmicpulsations take place within the pelvic area including the vagina. One key difference is that women do not experience a refractory period, and may have many more orgasms with continued clitoral stimulation, usually within 60 to 120 seconds. In most women, there is no ejaculation of fluid during orgasm.  This is an important fact for men to know, so as to not feel like they have not pleasured their woman, or make them feel inadequate because they don't.

With the right partner, most women can achieve multiple orgasms if they want.

Women are physiologically pickier than men when it comes to achieving an orgasm. For instance:

1) They 2)A romantic atmosphere
3) Someone they are physically attracted to
4) Tranquil surroundings
5) The right degree if clitoral stimulation – not to rough, not too easy

You will unlikely simulate your female partner to orgasm without most of the previous conditions being met.

Men need to know that women can have different types of orgasms---the most common is the clitoral orgasm.  The clitoris is a woman's main sexual pleasure point and can be stimulated orally or with the fingers. The clitoral orgasm may be wet or dry, and results in contractions within the uterus . Another type of orgasm is centered on the G-spot. The G spot is a little harder to find: it is located on the upper side of the vagina – about one half way in. In most women the G-spot is about 3 inches into the vagina, and on the top side.  Firm pressure is needed to find the G spot in its non-stimulated state.  It is a softer area that is about one half centimeter in size. The exact size and location can vary slightly from female to female.  When located, and stimulated, the G spot can result in an orgasm within the vaginal walls.

Figure 1, Internal Female Anatomy:




In summary, an orgasm is something very sensual that will provide both partners with intense pleasure. The following checklist can help both of you have orgasms regularly:

1) 2)Be gentle, especially when touching her genitals, or rubbing her clitoris
3) Use your tongue and lips to stimulate and gently suckle her breasts
4) Take it slow- it is not a race
5) Ask her if she likes what you are doing and ask her to tell you what she wants
6) Be a tease- touching her pleasurable spots then withdrawing over, and over again. This will build arousal, and heighten orgasm.
7) Use your own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris – however she may need additional lubrication, you can buy lubricants at any drugstore.
8) Be careful not to over stimulate some parts of the body – too much manipulation of the nipples or clitoris can cause pain
9) Experiment: try different things
10) Don't make demands: this could spoil the moment

Men should use this guide, because if their partner can enjoy orgasms every time they have sex, then you will definitely have more sex.

If you are an sexually unhappy woman – convince your partner to read this article, after all, your future happiness is at stake!

Good Luck!

I you want more good advice on pleasing women as well as other fascinating topics just visit the link below, you'll be glad you did.
http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/advice_for_men.php