You just gotta love the beach. It is a relaxing place to be, and everyone is their to have a good time. The beach is an even better place if you have some hot chick on your arm If your are going to take a date to the beach, there are a few things that you have to do to be prepared. Here are some tips and advice in that direction.
There are FIVE main things that you have to take to any beach outing. If you forget any for these, your day will be off to a lousy start that can only get worse. BSSWT is the mnemonic to remember. They stand for Blanket, sunscreen, shoes, water and towels. You need water or else you can get a severe headache from dehydration. The shoes and towel are to protect your feet and body from the incredibly hot sand, and the sunscreen is to protect your skin so you can stay out all day. Use an SPF of 30 or better at a minimum. However, once you’ve got all that stuff, you’ve got the basics covered. Now the advanced pros and cons to the beach date to consider.
The Good Stuff
One of the truly great things about a beach date is that you get to see your honey in a bathing suit. The second plus is that it is inexpensive and usually just a lot of laid back fun. Plus, if you’re sunglasses are dark enough, all the other women on the beach in their bikinis are there to see too. Just don’t get caught staring!
Another great thing about the beach date is swimming and frolicking with your date. It is sometimes a bit difficult getting in those first few intimate touches, but losing your balance and grabbing each other for support while playing in the water is a great ice breaker in that area. Similarly, there is something about swimming together in deeper water and taking a water treading break that requires being close and personal. Speaking of, applying her sunscreen is another way to establish instant physical intimacy.
Dating at the beach also invites ending the day with a picnic supper while watching the sunset. This is very romantic, and if you have played your cards right all day, will lead to much more intimacy.
The Bad Stuff
One thing that is sure to spoil a beach outing is rain, cold weather or excessive wind. Check the forecast before you leave so that you have an idea of what might be coming. Remember too, that the temperature at the beach is always a little cooler, because of the onshore breeze. Bring an extra sweater in case she gets chilly.
Sharks are always a potential threat to a good date. Don’t take her to Amity Island in New England. From the films about that place I’ve seen, beachgoers can have problems. ;-)
Babies and kids can be annoying, let’s face it. If you’re blanket is beside a family with a bunch of screaming babies or rambunctious kids, it can be tough to relax and get cozy with your lady. Find somewhere quiet and private. And don’t be afraid to move if a family settles beside you. Keep mobile!
Lastly, you have to expect a few muscle-bound hunks will be walking along the beach looking for women. These jerks ruin it for all the other dudes who have a beer belly or shoulder hair. You can try distracting her when they come near, but it is better to actually just let her get her eyeful of hunky dude. Chances are she would not be going out with you if body builder types enamor her.
If things go really well, she might want to stay on the beach after everyone else has left and get frisky. No matter what all the Hollywood movie storylines tell you, making love on the beach is not likely to be all that enjoyable. Here’s why. Sand will get everywhere and in everything, in spite of the blanket. This can cause a lot of hurt and make the date end up on a miserable note. On top of that, a lot of biting insects come out at night along most shorelines. In most locals, nighttime is a time to cover up, not get bare-naked. It is much, much better to bring her home to bed. Who knows, she just might stay the night!
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Everyone has their own ideas of what sexy means.
The umbrella of "sexy" covers many ideals.
As society has changed, so to have ideals, examples and vision of what it is that defines sexy.
Sex, in general terms, was considered to be a not to be discussed in polite company topic.
Once movies became a big part of everyone's life, the idea of being seen with a large woman on your arm gradually became less in vogue with most men. Big Screen sirens were usually more willowy than most other women for their time. The reason was simple; cameras add pounds to anyone's form, so screen actresses tended to were slimmer in real life so that they would look normal on the screen. Slowly, the idea of sexy gradually shifted from voluptuous to thin.
There is now a shift in place that is changing the sexy ideal to larger sizes.
With plastic surgery, big boobs are more in style, even on skinny women.
Push up bras with even triple padding are hot selling items among younger ladies, but when their dates see them without clothes on, the the bare truth is revealed. Men are let down with push-up-bra types. Because of this, many men are increasingly look at more naturally enhanced women, so curvy is back in vogue. And on that note, who is more curvy than a big beautiful woman?
When you look back in time, curvy women were considered to be most desirable. Larger women were idealized as child bearers, and offspring were a need in nomadic and agricultural societies. Even in cave man days, small statues often idealized their goddesses as voluptuous women and in most cases these statuettes were more fat than just curvy.
The lyrics in "Fiddler On The Roof" (If I Was a Rich Man) which talks about Russian rural society at the turn of the twentieth century talks about a rich man's wife as having a proper double chin. In other words, for much of history, being portly was a status symbol, because it proved you had plenty to eat, and therefore must be well to do.
In the last half of the twentieth century, there has been a lot of immigration from many various ethnic groups into north America. With these people have also come the more traditional preference for larger families and more motherly builds. The curvy lady is back in vogue.
Who knows, maybe in a few more years, the most desirable porn queens will be big beautiful women. Mae West was certainly not in any way skinny, but in the early twentieth century she was most men's ideal of a sexy lady.
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You just gotta love the beach. It is a relaxing place to be, and everyone is their to have a good time. The beach becomes an even better place to be if you have the new object of your desires there with you. However, if you’re going to go for the beach date, there are some considerations to make. Here are some tips for a successful beach date.
First off, there are five things you MUST bring to the beach on your date. If you forget any for these, your day will be off to a lousy start that can only get worse. BSSWT is the mnemonic to remember. They stand for Blanket, sunscreen, shoes, water and towels. The sand and sun will be so hot, that without that stuff, you’ll burn, roast, and fail. However, once you’ve got all that stuff, you’ve got the basics covered. Now the advanced pros and cons to the beach date to consider.
The Good Stuff
The best things about the beach date are that it is inexpensive, and you get to see her in a bathing suit. A free look at your potential honey in her bikini is something that you should take advantage of! . Of course it you have wrap around dark sunglasses, you can discretely check out all the other hot bodies as well.
The beach date is mostly about swimming and just horsing around with your honey. Splashing and playing with beach balls and Frisbees is a lot of fun. It can always be awkward to get those first few touches or embraces with a woman, but if you’re playfully wrestling and splashing in the water, it’s a quick way to get those first touches out of the way. And remember that sun screen? Helping each other put that on is instant "rub your hands all over the other person's body" intimacy. Outstanding!.
The beach date is also great because you can stay and watch the sunset and have a picnic supper with her. This is very romantic, and if you have played your cards right all day, will lead to much more intimacy.
Cons to the Beach Date
One thing that is sure to spoil a beach outing is rain, cold weather or excessive wind. Check the long range forecast before you make the date if you are planning in advance. Even so, the forecast is likely to change, so have a change in venue if it turns out that the beach is a no-go for reasons of weather. Do one final check the night before because the weather will be pretty certain by then. Remember too, that the temperature at the beach is always a little cooler, because of the onshore breeze. Bring an extra sweater in case she gets chilly.
Sharks are always a potential threat to a good date. Don’t take her to Amity Island in New England. From the films about that place I’ve seen, beach-goers can have problems. ;-)
Nothing is as big a pain as a loud, obnoxious group of people close by. You know the type, rude, foul mouthed, and just show offs. Often pushing their weight around because they need to feel big for some reason. If you run into something like that, then just move up the beach a way to where it is quieter and more private. Remember that you may have to be mobile, so pack as light as you can.
Lastly, you have to expect a few muscle-bound hunks will be walking along the beach looking for women. These jerks ruin it for all the other dudes who have a beer belly or shoulder hair. Try distracting her when these guys are around, but if they keep coming by it will be obvious what you are trying to do. At that point, just let her have her fill of female type eye-candy. Likely she would not be going out with you in the first place if she was actually attracted to these muscle bound types.
If you have a good day, you may linger after most of the crowd has gone. This is the time when most people would think that you could have some beach sex. No matter what all the Hollywood movie story-lines tell you, making love on the beach is not likely to be all that enjoyable. Here’s why. Sex on the beach always involves sand. It’s coarse, and not what you want when you’re getting “slippery”. Plus, it’s not private, and gets cold fast once the sun goes down. Bring her home to bed – trust me!
Hope this helps, and remember the sunscreen!
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