Lesbian Relationships

 For a lot of lesbians, finding the love of your life can be as easy as going online to a lesbian dating website (or even some more general purpose online dating sites) and creating an accurate profile that is interesting to others, and then just sit back and wait for them to come to you. It can be that easy but you will have even more success if you reach out to other people on the site. So spend some time reading other profiles online, because not only might you find some really interesting females to connect to, but you could also get some good ideas of things that you could have put in your profile or different ways of phrasing your profile to make it more interesting. If someone's wording or ideas caught your eye, then similar wording or ideas might help your profile catch someone else's eye. A number of lesbians find themselves in groups of singles while they are doing things they enjoy, are at work, and attending social gatherings. If you are at some sort of specialty event, then there is a good chance that you might meet someone there that has similar interests to you.

 A common mistake that a lot of lesbians make when having their first relationship is getting too involved too early. Before you end up waking up next to an individual that you barely know. Go out on a few outings first, get to know each other to find out what you have in common. You must have some common interests, values and plans for the future that will mesh well. Share things with each other, if you get a new job, if a acquaintance has a baby, a party is planned, a kudos you might have gotten, be sure to involve your partner, they are not only your lover, they are  your best friend.

If you are at a family gathering or with friends and someone starts telling gay and lesbian jokes that are in bad taste and insulting to you and your partner, and you see your partner is upset by it, just get up and leave, tell them you came to enjoy yourselves not to listen to a lot of trash about how other people live their lives|One awkward situation would be to find yourselves at a social or family gathering and hear people dissing the gay and lesbian community at large. This will require you to make a stand and let people know that you will not tolerate statements of that nature. Insult them if you have to. If your family and friends are aware of your sexual preference then tell them that you are not at all happy about what was said, and that if they think your way of life is something to be made fun of and make jokes about then please don't expect you and your partner to attend any more get togethers. After all, who needs to go anywhere and be made to feel bad.

Introduce your partner to your friends and family and involve them in everything that you do. This is an important step to establishing and keeping a relationship.

Lesbians are God's chosen people, especially when it comes to STD's like aids.. Women just totally understand how to please each other during sex.  Gay men have a similar advantage, but the aids specter spoils the fun a lot.  Pity the poor heterosexual couples where each party is not quite sure what makes the other either satisfied or happy.

The lesbian life is the best that there is, so love your life and live it to the max. Live, love and share your life with others, and surround yourself with friends and family who will be there for you in both good times and bad.

 Remember that other people may not be comfortable with a lifestyle that they don't know a lot about so try to stick with those who have a positive attitude.  Since you are lesbians, it would be best if you have understanding friends from the gay community at large. It is difficult to find truly open minded heterosexual friends, so if you find some, then nurture them well.

One of the great secrets of the bible is that God created Adam and Eve, but then  after thinking it through made Eve a woman to keep her happy.


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The Male Orgasm

 The male orgasm can be an exciting experience, the major function of the male orgasm is there lease of sperm, however not all men ejaculate with orgasm. The female orgasm is however still a bit of a mystery as to why it happens, it is generally believed that it is to help the sperm proceed along on their journey toward the ovum (egg).

 Most men are not at all familiar with their G-spot, some men don't know that they have one. Some of you will be surprised to learn that the male prostate is in fact the equivalent to the women's G-spot. Not many people are aware of this fact. It is also easier to find the male G-spot. For some people it may seem depraved to probe that area, but if you keep an open mind about it you could experience the best orgasms you could ever hope to have.

FINDING THE MALE G-SPOT

The male G-spot is quite easy to locate, however, it does require a bit of trial and error. It is located below the bladder and in front of the rectum. Lying on your back is on of the more comfortable and convenient ways to reach it, so you will likely want to use a bed or a large couch. The process is less problematic if you have your legs elevated which you can do by having them hang over the back of the sofa or by leaning them against the wall behind the bed. Try putting a pillow under your butt to make it easier to reach the right spot. For neophytes take it slow and use a gel. Then slowly insert your finger into the anus and probe slowly, you will know when you have reached the prostate gland when you come across the small lump the size of a chestnut that is roughly about two inches inward.

If your partner is on his back your palm should be up, it is actually a good idea to use a rubber glove, but lacking that, make sure that your fingernails are not sharp, and wash your hands thoroughly afterwards before touching yourself anywhere. Always remember that not all men like prostate stimulation just as some women love having their G-Spot massaged and others find it uncomfortable. Once located and properly stimulated it will provide men with an orgasm that is more stimulating than they have ever had with regular intercourse.

Prostate milking as it is also called also enables the man to experience multiple orgasms that are longer in duration and gives them the ability to ejaculate without being sexually aroused before hand. Orgasms achieved through prostrate milking can be four times more satisfying and can persist for five minutes. Male G-spot stimulation produces a full body orgasm.

POINTS TO PONDER
 Before you and your significant other begin anal g-spot manipulation, you should take the time to make sure you are relaxed and not just start up in the heat of the moment. Some people will actually have a nice hot bath before beginning. Using a finger is the best way to locate and provide stimulation to the G-spot if you are unsure or you are a newbie to this, there are sexual devices you can obtain that will aid in male g-spot massage. You can also try different methods each time for variety. Rubbing the penis while gently manipulating the G-spot is one option.

COMMON MISUNDERSTANDINGS

Many people believe that for a man to play with his own G-spot is unnatural or gay, which is why it is not done that often. The truth is that prostate milking is as normal as any form of masturbation, it is not something to be hidden, and it is not gay. There is nothing  wrong with enjoying the pleasures of self g-spot masturbation. As a very powerful sex gland it can cause a very intense orgasm, and it is entirely normal to experiment with it.


“BE CAREFUL”

There are some risks associated with prostate milking if it is not performed correctly|. Applying too much pressure on the prostate gland could lead to serious health conditions such as Gangrene, Hemorrhoidal problems, Blood poisoning and Transferring prostate cancer to various parts of the body. The recommended pressure on the G-spot is comparable to the amount of pressure you would use to rub your eyes with.

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BBW Sexy Ladies

Everyone has their own ideas of what sexy means.
The umbrella of "sexy" covers many ideals. 
As society has changed, so to have ideals, examples and vision of what it is that defines sexy. 
Sex, in general terms, was considered to be a not to be discussed in polite company topic. 
Once movies became a big part of everyone's life, the idea of being seen with a large woman on your arm gradually became less in vogue with most men.  Big Screen sirens were usually more willowy than most other women for their time. The reason was simple; cameras add pounds to anyone's form, so screen actresses tended to were slimmer in real life so that they would look normal on the screen.  Slowly, the idea of sexy gradually shifted from voluptuous to thin.

There is now a shift in place that is changing the sexy ideal to larger sizes.
With plastic surgery, big boobs are more in style, even on skinny women.
Push up bras  with even triple padding are hot selling items among younger ladies, but when their dates see them without clothes on, the the bare truth is revealed.  Men are let down with push-up-bra types.  Because of this, many men are increasingly look at more naturally enhanced women, so curvy is back in vogue.   And on that note, who is more curvy than a big beautiful woman?

When you look back in time, curvy women were considered to be most desirable. Larger women were idealized as child bearers, and offspring were a need in nomadic and agricultural societies.  Even in cave man days, small statues often idealized their goddesses as voluptuous women and in most cases these statuettes were more fat than just curvy.

The lyrics in "Fiddler On The Roof" (If I Was a Rich Man) which talks about Russian rural society at the turn of the twentieth century talks about a rich man's wife as having a proper double chin. In other words, for much of history, being portly was a status symbol, because it proved you had plenty to eat, and therefore must be well to do.

In the last half of the twentieth century, there has been a lot of immigration from many various ethnic groups into north America. With these people have also come the more traditional preference for larger families and more motherly builds.  The curvy lady is back in vogue.

Who knows, maybe in a few more years, the most desirable porn queens will be big beautiful women.  Mae West was certainly not in any way skinny, but in the early twentieth century she was most men's ideal of a sexy lady.

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Is Love Waiting For You

     As I did my daily routine of running through the creek behind my house one sunny fourth of July last year, I was looking in awe at the fallen trees, and the weeds that some people would argue are flowers, and smelling the water in the creek (that I know comes from the sewers), when a bird pooed on my head. I thought “oh well” just another ordinary day. As I ran along, I bumped into a acquaintance of mine that I will call Stinky and please don't ask why I call him that, I think it should not be a mystery to you. As we walked, I mentioned to him that a bird had done its business on the top of my head, and he replied “where is that tree you were walking under, its good luck”. If I had thought for one minute that it was good luck I would have rolled in it, (as you may have figured Stinky really doesn’t have much of a social life, but then again, neither do I).

         Our biggest problem is communicating with the opposite sex. Stinky can usually make a few vowel sounds, then he has to go away. I’m a little more relaxed since I work with mostly women anyway. I can usually start a conversation with them before I start to sweat and have any confidence suddenly elude me, then I have to politely excuse myself.

    Stinky feels that women's standards are too high when it comes to dating, however, I beg to differ. I really don't believe for a minute the women suggesting that he  have a shower before picking her up is classified as “high standard”. Stinky  may be the smelliest guy I know, but he is  one of the nicest (nicest not brightest). However, he does sometimes on occasion come up with pretty off the wall idea's that make a lot of sense, but I'm not sure about this one. “We will join a Dating Site” he cried out. I said before sometimes he comes up with smart idea's but this wasn't one of those times. He proceeded to inform me that a friend at work gave him the idea(some friend). “Is this the same friend that leaves deodorant and body wash on your desk?” I asked. “It sure is! He's a very thoughtful person,” (ya right). Stinky said “My friend met a wonderful women on a dating site,” (what women?? the guy he's talking about  is a homosexual.) “Why would your homosexual friend use a dating site to meet women?” I asked, “I think your getting in over your head”. In the end, and after weeks of dodging  Stinky and his not so bright idea, I finally decided to give in just to make him happy.

        As I tried to sleep that night, all I could think about was the last date I had, which had not ended under the best of circumstances. I’m sure the woman I'll call “hungry”, hadn’t eaten in a week  prior to our date and she must have thought I owned an oil well or something! After she had gobbled up several hors d'œuvres, as well as several other side dishes, expensive wine and a double order of lobster, I checked the balance on my Visa card, then to my horror she suggested  we order desert! “Desert!?” I quickly reminded her that this was not an all you can eat dinner, she then  jumped up called me things I've never heard before and stormed to the door. Like the desperate person I am, I ran after her and asked if she would like to see me again, at which time she slugged me with her hand bag (I guess that meant no!). So I went back to the table and sat alone looking at the bill she had run up and wondered if I would be able to get lots of overtime at work next week to pay for it.

        I started to have second thoughts about joining a dating site, but since my best friend had his heart set on it (and knowing he would do anything for me), I decided to go through with it. It turned out to be the best move that we had ever made. Stinky and I both joined a Dating Site, and it wasn’t long before we had  responses from some beautiful ladies. We were both very scared and excited to think that we might no longer have to prop up blowup dolls on our couches so the neighbors would see the silhouette and think we actually had lives. Stinky asked me “what should I do to get ready?”I said “just get in the shower, turn that water on, use that bar of soap (you can't take it with you) and scrub your worries  down the drain”, (as well as the dirt and body odor of course).We double dated that evening to support each other, and we had a mind blowing time. We ate, had some drinks, and danced the night away. Stinky took me aside and confided in me, that even though he had just met this women, he knew this was the one. I gave him a bear hug, and said “follow your heart,” and he did. She seemed to take to him as well, surprisingly!

         Well I don't call him Stinky anymore, (no one does now that he has learned  basic  hygiene). He is above all, my best friend. Devon is still with that wonderful women he met on that dating site. This was eight years ago and after dating for some time, they took the plunge. They had one child and are expecting another any time now. As for me, it took a little longer, but I finally found the love of my life, and we are expecting our first child soon. Life is great and it keeps getting better!

       Its true what they say, there's someone for everyone. You just have to look in the right place. Some times it just takes someone who cares about you to push you in the right direction . Life is too short and precious to spend it alone, wondering what it would be like to have someone to share it with. So if you want to turn around your life then take my advice, and get off your butt and make the first move.

    Hey, if Stinky and I can do it, so can you! There are so many dating sites out there it is easy to get lost, or waste you time on insignificant ones, but I'll give you a tip, this is the site that me and Stinky used to find the best sites for us and in our opinion its the best place to find dating sites. So if you are tired of being alone and want someone to be with for the rest of your life well just follow this link, it will be the best move you ever make.

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Are Gay Men Shallow

 A lot of people seem to think that gay men are shallow when it comes to finding someone they would like to have a long term relationship with. But is that really true? Of course many of us prefer someone who is healthy as well as physically fit; heck you can say the same thing about heterosexuals as well. In fact sometimes it is hard for people that do not fit that type to find a partner. It is more of a challenge for gay men because they are in a minority. Even the gay community has its share of shallow types. My idea is that if they do not like me then they can kiss my not so flabby tush.

As you get older you find that most guys are not as interested in how you look as opposed to your intelligence and brains. But until that day comes you might just have to take what you can get, or try going to the gym once in awhile. Appearance is definitely a big factor, but it is not the only thing in the game of love between young gay men. Not many guys want to date someone that is chubby. Personally for me I have to be very attracted to the person before I even have any idea's about approaching another man, let alone start a relationship with them.  If that makes me shallow, so be it, but I know what I want. 

 Why are so many young gay men interested in slim trim athletic types? Guys in general are sexual creatures and want to have sex with good looking guys. This also holds true for a lot of young guys are only looking for sex and not any form of long term commitment. Of course attractiveness standards vary with different cultures and races, I have a few over weight friends that have no trouble getting dates and having serious relationships. There are many reasons why some people will focus on physical attributes over all others. Every group has people who are shallow when it comes to picking a mate its just who they are.

Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against people who don't measure up to my standards as far a dating goes, most of them are nice people but I just would not consider dating them. I have some wonderful friends that I cherish for the friends that they are, and I met most of them online. I love meeting people online because it tends to push my extended network of friends so much farther than I could ever do within my existing network of pals. You might think that I am callous because I can see what they look like before I put the moves on them, but it is more than that. Many of them are people that I happened to meet in chat rooms on dating sites and I became interested in them because of what they had to say. I have not dated many of them, but I do consider many of them to be among my circle of friends now. One of the main reasons why I hang out on dating sites is because there is a certain kindred spirit thing going on because all of us are still looking.

I think I am at that cusp in my life where I am transitioning from casual pickups to a long term commitment. I am not quite ready to make the commitment jump yet, but I am thinking that a few longer term relationships might help me get past the fear that I have of being exclusive with just one person. For me, online dating is a useful tool that helps me find new tools (LOL). If you start dating and the person seems to be rushing it and making you uncomfortable, it is easy to move on. And if by chance they start to hassle you online, well all you have to do is block them, with online dating sites your real email address phone number and address are never given out so there's no worry about someone harassing you unless you were stupid and gave them your personal contact information already.  The best thing though is that most of the men on dating sites are just like you, and are unlikely to push themselves on someone where the affection is not being returned.

For the most part most men do not care so much what you look like, or how you style your hair or whether or not you work out or not. They just want to find someone compatible. They want someone with the same interests, personality traits. Someone who is  compassionate, caring and giving. Someone who's company they can enjoy. Someone looking for a more of a commitment than just a one night stand.

So if you want to expand your horizons, consider joining an online dating site. There are many, many really solid sites out there that are totally committed to helping you find someone special in your life. They have a variety of members from many cultures all looking for someone to share their experiences and lives with. So why wait? Get off your butt, get online and check them out. You won't be disappointed. At worst you will meet a lot of interesting people that you will come to regard as friends, even if they never make it to lovers. The link below is to a site that I found helpful when I was first starting out in the internet dating arena.

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