In Victorian times, most adult ladies did not have orgasms. In fact, many did not even know what an orgasm was. A lot of women were reared with no sexual instruction, and often thinking that sex was dirty. A twin study done in 2005 found that one in three women reported never or seldom achieving orgasm during intercourse, and just one tenth always achieved an orgasm. As you can see, orgasms are rare or non-existent for many women. A woman who cannot have an orgasm has as frustrating a life as a man with an erectile dysfunction.
So how can we change this, especially when most women now a days desire orgasms. Well let's begin by exploring what a female orgasm really is. Woman experiencing an orgasm is similar to what men experience-there is a surge of emotion, marking a moment of intense pleasure, and a pulsing, twitchy sensation that extends throughout the body. Rythmicpulsations take place within the pelvic area including the vagina. One key difference is that women do not experience a refractory period, and may have many more orgasms with continued clitoral stimulation, usually within 60 to 120 seconds. In most women, there is no ejaculation of fluid during orgasm. This is an important fact for men to know, so as to not feel like they have not pleasured their woman, or make them feel inadequate because they don't.
With the right partner, most women can achieve multiple orgasms if they want.
Women are physiologically pickier than men when it comes to achieving an orgasm. For instance:
1) They 2)A romantic atmosphere
3) Someone they are physically attracted to
4) Tranquil surroundings
5) The right degree if clitoral stimulation – not to rough, not too easy
You will unlikely simulate your female partner to orgasm without most of the previous conditions being met.
Men need to know that women can have different types of orgasms---the most common is the clitoral orgasm. The clitoris is a woman's main sexual pleasure point and can be stimulated orally or with the fingers. The clitoral orgasm may be wet or dry, and results in contractions within the uterus . Another type of orgasm is centered on the G-spot. The G spot is a little harder to find: it is located on the upper side of the vagina – about one half way in. In most women the G-spot is about 3 inches into the vagina, and on the top side. Firm pressure is needed to find the G spot in its non-stimulated state. It is a softer area that is about one half centimeter in size. The exact size and location can vary slightly from female to female. When located, and stimulated, the G spot can result in an orgasm within the vaginal walls.
Figure 1, Internal Female Anatomy:
In summary, an orgasm is something very sensual that will provide both partners with intense pleasure. The following checklist can help both of you have orgasms regularly:
1) 2)Be gentle, especially when touching her genitals, or rubbing her clitoris
3) Use your tongue and lips to stimulate and gently suckle her breasts
4) Take it slow- it is not a race
5) Ask her if she likes what you are doing and ask her to tell you what she wants
6) Be a tease- touching her pleasurable spots then withdrawing over, and over again. This will build arousal, and heighten orgasm.
7) Use your own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris – however she may need additional lubrication, you can buy lubricants at any drugstore.
8) Be careful not to over stimulate some parts of the body – too much manipulation of the nipples or clitoris can cause pain
9) Experiment: try different things
10) Don't make demands: this could spoil the moment
Men should use this guide, because if their partner can enjoy orgasms every time they have sex, then you will definitely have more sex.
If you are an sexually unhappy woman – convince your partner to read this article, after all, your future happiness is at stake!
Good Luck!
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