Dating Women

If you are looking for tips on how to date women, then hopefully this article will give you a few courses of action. When you treat women correctly on the first date, they will likely be open for other dates, regardless of what you look like or your financial position. There is one key ingredient, and that is charm, charm, charm.  Although there is such a thing as too flattering, girls will tend to forgive that. There is however, a few must not dos such as:
1) Do not diminish yourself such as
a. Making her feel so important that you lower your status to be less than hers. If you are praising her or giving her a complement, couch it as a double entendre. You will achieve the complement without appearing to be subservient.
b. Asking her to compare you former lovers – on a first date you will always come up short. Do not force this comparison early; it is too soon to get into this level of feedback.
c. Giving her too much control over what happens next on a date. Questions should not be open ended. If you are not sure of what she would like, then give her a list of two, or at most three choices of things to do next. If she is not happy with any of them, then you have not done your homework as to what her needs are. You have screwed up, you deserve to be dumped. (On subsequent dates, you can ask for ideas, but on a first date you should appear to be in control, well planned, but flexible).
2) The next common mistake is trying to impress her too much. Do not boast and crow, and keep mum on your financial information.  Just be a reasonably attentive partner, hear and remember what she says, and pick up the bill.  Date one is female centric, it is not about you. If she asks questions, then answer them in something more than one word answers, but no answer should take longer than one minute, or else you are in the danger zone of coming across in a negative light.
3) Do not do not make her out to be a princess. That advice is more important if the woman is beautiful.  Beautiful women are used to being on a pedestal. Did you ever notice how often that really attractive women are dating hoodlums?  That is because bad boys do not put them on a pedestal and they feel like they are being appreciated for who they are. In many cases the bums are abusive, but they like that because it is just different, and different is special to them. Nothing is more tiring to attractive women as getting an unsolicited compliment – they have heard it all before.  The better approach is to just ask them something about themselves, such as what they are doing, where they work, etc.
4) Being exclusive too soon in a relationship.  Both you and her should be obviously playing the field initially. If you seem too willing to commit exclusively, you will seem needy and diminished in their eyes.  No woman wants to be dating a grasping loser. You have to come across as successful in relationships, and therefore more interesting in her eyes.

If you are having trouble getting a desirable woman, then try the following pages to help you zero in on the best female type that you desire:

Online Dating

Dating Adults

Senior Dating

Gay Personals

Lesbian Dating

Swinger Dating

Cheating

Top Dating Sites

Top 100 Personals Sites 

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Are Gay Men Shallow

 A lot of people seem to think that gay men are shallow when it comes to finding someone they would like to have a long term relationship with. But is that really true? Of course many of us prefer someone who is healthy as well as physically fit; heck you can say the same thing about heterosexuals as well. In fact sometimes it is hard for people that do not fit that type to find a partner. It is more of a challenge for gay men because they are in a minority. Even the gay community has its share of shallow types. My idea is that if they do not like me then they can kiss my not so flabby tush.

As you get older you find that most guys are not as interested in how you look as opposed to your intelligence and brains. But until that day comes you might just have to take what you can get, or try going to the gym once in awhile. Appearance is definitely a big factor, but it is not the only thing in the game of love between young gay men. Not many guys want to date someone that is chubby. Personally for me I have to be very attracted to the person before I even have any idea's about approaching another man, let alone start a relationship with them.  If that makes me shallow, so be it, but I know what I want. 

 Why are so many young gay men interested in slim trim athletic types? Guys in general are sexual creatures and want to have sex with good looking guys. This also holds true for a lot of young guys are only looking for sex and not any form of long term commitment. Of course attractiveness standards vary with different cultures and races, I have a few over weight friends that have no trouble getting dates and having serious relationships. There are many reasons why some people will focus on physical attributes over all others. Every group has people who are shallow when it comes to picking a mate its just who they are.

Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against people who don't measure up to my standards as far a dating goes, most of them are nice people but I just would not consider dating them. I have some wonderful friends that I cherish for the friends that they are, and I met most of them online. I love meeting people online because it tends to push my extended network of friends so much farther than I could ever do within my existing network of pals. You might think that I am callous because I can see what they look like before I put the moves on them, but it is more than that. Many of them are people that I happened to meet in chat rooms on dating sites and I became interested in them because of what they had to say. I have not dated many of them, but I do consider many of them to be among my circle of friends now. One of the main reasons why I hang out on dating sites is because there is a certain kindred spirit thing going on because all of us are still looking.

I think I am at that cusp in my life where I am transitioning from casual pickups to a long term commitment. I am not quite ready to make the commitment jump yet, but I am thinking that a few longer term relationships might help me get past the fear that I have of being exclusive with just one person. For me, online dating is a useful tool that helps me find new tools (LOL). If you start dating and the person seems to be rushing it and making you uncomfortable, it is easy to move on. And if by chance they start to hassle you online, well all you have to do is block them, with online dating sites your real email address phone number and address are never given out so there's no worry about someone harassing you unless you were stupid and gave them your personal contact information already.  The best thing though is that most of the men on dating sites are just like you, and are unlikely to push themselves on someone where the affection is not being returned.

For the most part most men do not care so much what you look like, or how you style your hair or whether or not you work out or not. They just want to find someone compatible. They want someone with the same interests, personality traits. Someone who is  compassionate, caring and giving. Someone who's company they can enjoy. Someone looking for a more of a commitment than just a one night stand.

So if you want to expand your horizons, consider joining an online dating site. There are many, many really solid sites out there that are totally committed to helping you find someone special in your life. They have a variety of members from many cultures all looking for someone to share their experiences and lives with. So why wait? Get off your butt, get online and check them out. You won't be disappointed. At worst you will meet a lot of interesting people that you will come to regard as friends, even if they never make it to lovers. The link below is to a site that I found helpful when I was first starting out in the internet dating arena.

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Male G-Spot

 The male orgasm can be a stimulating experience, the major function of the male orgasm is the release of sperm, however some men do not ejaculate with orgasm. The female orgasm is however still a bit of a mystery as to why it happens, some believe it is only to help the sperm along on their journey toward the ovum (egg).

 Most men out there are not at all familiar with their G-spot, some men don't know that they have one. Some of you have no idea that the male prostrate is the equivalent of the female G spot. Not many people are aware of this fact. It is also easier to find the male G-spot. For some people it may seem weird to probe that area, but if you keep an open mind about it you could experience the best orgasms you could ever hope to have.

FINDING THE MALE G-SPOT

The male G-spot is not that hard to locate, however, it does require a little patience. It is between the rectum and the bladder. Lying on your back is about the most convenient way to reach it, so you will most probably need to use a bed or a large sofa. The process will be easier by elevating your legs slightly. You may also want to try putting a pillow or two under your butt to make it easier to reach the right spot. For first timers take it slow and use a gel. Then gently insert your finger into the anus and probe gently, you will know when you have reached the prostate gland when you come across the chestnut sized lump that is roughly about two inches inward.

If your partner is on his back your palm should be up, be sure your fingernails are not sharp, and be sure not to touch your own genital area with the same finger you used to penetrate your partners anus. Keep in mind that not all men like prostate stimulation just as many females love G-Spot stimulation and others find it distracting. Once located and properly stimulated it will create an orgasm that is more stimulating than they have ever had with regular intercourse.

Prostate milking as it is also called also enables the man to have multiple orgasms that are longer in duration and gives them the ability to ejaculate without being sexually aroused before hand. It has been noted that the orgasms achieved this way can be four hundred percent more exciting and can persist for 5 minutes. Male G-spot stimulation produces a full body orgasm.

POINTS TO PONDER
 Before you and your significant other start playing with his G-Spot, it is a good idea to get as relaxed as possible. Some people will actually have a nice hot shower before they proceed. Use a finger to locate and stimulate the G-spot if afraid or you are a beginner, there are sexual adult toys you can get that will help you get started. You can also try different methods each time for variety. Stroking the penis while gently manipulating the G-spot is one option.

SOME MISCONCEPTIONS

People often think that for a man to play with his own G-spot is unnatural or gay, which is one reason a lot of men do not talk about it or ask question's about it. The truth is that prostate milking is as normal as any form of masturbation, it is not something to be hidden, and it is not gay. There is nothing  strange about enjoying the pleasures of self manipulation. As a very powerful sex gland it can cause a very powerful orgasm, and it is perfectly normal to experiment with it.


“BE CAREFUL”

There are some risks associated with anal stimulation if it is not done correctly|. Too much force on the prostate gland could lead to serious health conditions such as transferring cancer, blood poisoning, infections, and hemorrhoids. The amount of recommended pressure on the G-spot is about the same as you would use to rub your eyes with.

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