Friday, November 18, 2011

Ideas For Kinky Dates With Open-Minded Ladies

Once in a while, the universe will smile on a single man and hook him up with an open-minded and adventurous woman in his dating life. This is a woman who is not likely to be singing in the church choir on Sundays if you get my drift.  If you hook up with a lady of this nature, you have to go to crazy places on a regular basis. Here are some suggestions if you’re ever lucky enough to get one of these women to go out with you. Have fun!

Nudie Bar

If your women has any sorts of bi-sexual tendencies, she will likely jump at the chance to go to a strip bar. I mean, she will likely enjoy the action as much as you! She might even buy you a lap dance, and vise-versa! There are some memories to last a lifetime! Many strippers are bi-sexual, or into threesomes, so if you want to really be out there, you might find that the girl on stage can be persuaded into a menage a trois. 

A Trip To Your Local Sex Shop

Going to a Sex Store is an interesting way to pass a rainy afternoon. Lots of fun stuff to explore, and if nothing else, get giddy over. Sometimes it is best to loosen up before the trip by going to a bar for a couple of drinks first. This helps to lower inhibitions a bit and makes the entire experience more enjoyable. Pay attention as you walk around and take notice of what she is touching, or looking at. Ask questions and see if she gets a blush on. You can tell her what you’d like to buy for her. She can get you something. If you approach it right, there is nothing but fun and good times to be had in a sex shop. A word of caution here. Most quality shops are pretty expensive, and there is a no-returns policy on just about everything. Make sure you can bankroll the trip before embarking on it.

Strangers Meeting Role-Play

Once you have been to a sex shop, you may have picked up a few costumes to clown around in. If not then a return trip might be in order! In any event, the more costumes, the more fun. You can even mix and match! You can be an astronaut or a spy, and she can be a prison warden or a movie star.

The best way to pick the role to play is to write them all down on separate pieces of paper, and then pick them out of a hat or something.


BDSM Parlor

For a real change of pace, consider Bondage. It requires that you fully trust your partner, and that may actually add to your relationship. Lots of people like the bondage and domination part of it. Saddo is not everyone's cup of tea..  Most regular practitioners are into the bondage side of things rather than the domination or the saddo masochism, so do not let the idea scare you.  Do not be afraid to go just because you have never done it before. Most BDSM parlors will help newbies so that they will become regular clientele.



That should be enough to dip your toe into. Besides the sex shops, you can always just rent costumes. There are plenty of places that cater to the movie industry that you can tap into, even Halloween costume shops! For other ideas, there are always fetish parties to attend, and sexy-themed hotel rooms to stay in. Just make sure you keep it fun, entertaining, and KINKY!

For more ideas try this link:

Fun Dating Advice for Men

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